Small But Real Reasons of Your Girl Dumping You

There must be chances that you think your relationship is perfect because you take care of everything. Cheating on your girlfriend or missing her birth dates is things you can't even think of doing. But still you can get dumped by your girlfriend and here are the reasons why-

Tell her to Decide Everything

Deciding anything is also a work so always leaving things upon your girlfriend might burden her even if it only involves choosing where to eat or what movie to see.
After a while, she might feel as if you just don’t care. Instead, tell her your thoughts. For instance, if there are three movie choices, let her know which is your least favorite. Then ask her what she’s thinking. This shows that you’re listening and want to be involved.  

Treat Her Differently when Friends are Around

Most of the girls know not to hang on you when you're with your friends. They know that makes you end up looking like the Guy with the Needy Girlfriend. But carrying a different attitude while your friends are around might

Stay Silent during Fights

If you think of saying something during a fight will make situation worst then you are wrong. 
Zipping your lips and crossing your arms sends a message that you don’t want to validate her concerns with a response or that her argument is trivial.

Money Saving Tricks can be Cheap

Thursday night special at the local diner? How fun! Twice a week? Eww. Are you the guy who always (meaning every week) looks for those free drink specials at local bars or the two for one burger deals? That's a turn off. Frugal is great. Cheap is not.

Don’t Laugh at Jokes she Makes

It might happen you don’t find her jokes funny. But then neither is your boss, but you still chuckle at his lame jokes. The reason: It shows you respect him. 
The same goes for when you laugh at your partner’s attempts at humor. It’s a sign of affirmation. The more you do it, the better she’ll feel about herself and your relationship. 
 

Doing Me and Only Me

The girls never like to be overshadowed. Thus, stop saying I am this and that. As these things reflect how selfish you are. Also, it shows that the girl only has looks and no brain. So, stop making her feel like a zero else be ready to get dumped.
 

Leave the Toilet Seat up

Here’s the truth: Most women who make a fuss over the toilet seat being up don’t really care about the actual seat. It’s just an indicator girls use to gauge how considerate you are, Orbuch says.
Taking the time to lower the seat means you’ll probably offer up your jacket when it’s cold or open the car door for her, too. 
 

Don’t know her Friends

Boxing out your partner’s friends is a relationship deal breaker, Orbuch says. You don’t have to love her girlfriends, but you need to respect the bond she has with them. 
Most women want a guy who their friends approve of. They want someone who their friends find interesting and engaging. So the next time she meets up with them for happy hour, tag along. 
Buy the first round, chat with them all, and then head out so they can spend some time together. It’ll give you a chance to go to poker night, too.
 

Never on Time

You got stuck in traffic. You spilled a coffee as you walked out the door. You lost track of time. Whatever the excuse is, your girlfriend is sick of you consistently showing up 5 or 10 minutes late. 
While those few minutes may seem insignificant to you, it says that you don’t respect your girlfriend’s time and that you’re unreliable and untrustworthy, Fisher says. If you want her to take you seriously, make a conscious effort to be punctual. 
 

Digging Her Past

Never make her feel the pain from the past. The girls prefer to be happy with the present. Thus, digging her past is a disrespectful activity. Also, this describes your mindset and thought process. So, be cautious with what you say. This is because you might not know the real reasons for her breakup from the past. Therefore, this activity can make her ditch you.
Reasons girls dump boys - All these reasons are enough to understand what not to do in a relationship. So, stay humble, caring and loving towards your girlfriend. This will save you from being dumped by a girl.